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Samuel Chadwick, an old-time methodist preacher once said…..

“The Church that is man-managed instead of God-governed is doomed to failure. A ministry that is College-trained but not Spirit-filled works no miracles. The Church that multiplies committees and neglects prayer may be fussy, noisy, entertaining and enterprising, but it labours in vain and spends its strength for naught. It is possible to excel in mechanics and fail in dynamic. There is a superabundance of machinery; what is wanting is power. To run an organization needs no God. Man can supply the energy, enterprise and enthusiasm for things human. The real work of a Church depends upon the power of the Spirit.”

I believe that quote stands true and firm today! May God help the preacher in the pulpit and the parishioner in the pew to have the almighty power of God upon them at all times!

The Bible is unique among the books of the world. The Bible is the Word of God. As we read and study the Bible, our minds work in the same fashion as they do when reading a newspaper or another book. But with Bible reading and study, there is an added dimension to understanding the text. If you received a personal note from your president or head of state, your entire attitude toward the content of the note would be significantly different than if you were reading a newspaper. You would read and reread, stopping to savor the words. How much more so with the Word of God!

This is why John Wesley counseled that “serious and earnest prayer should be constantly used before we consult the oracles of God.” As we come to the Bible, we need to remind ourselves of Who is speaking here. Wesley went on to say that Scripture can be understood only by the Spirit who gave it. And so our attitude in approaching Scripture should be a humble desire that the Holy Spirit help us to understand the text we are reading and studying. What we gain from reading and studying the Bible is directly linked to the attitude we bring to the reading.

  • Come to the Bible expecting to grow. It is like both milk (1 Pet. 2:2) and solid food (Heb. 5:14), providing nourishment for the young and for those more mature.
  • Come to the Bible for understanding and direction. It is like a counselor (Ps. 119:24) and provides light (Ps. 119:105,130).
  • Come to the Bible for correction and purification.
    • It is like a mirror in which we see ourselves clearly and see changes we need to make.
    • It is like fire, like a hammer (Jer. 23:29), like a sword by which God performs spiritual surgery on our heart (Heb. 4:12), like water that washes and purifies (Eph. 5:26).
  • Come to the Bible for pleasure. God’s word is like honey (Pss. 19:9; 119:103).

I believe that if you come to the Bible with these attitudes and expectations, you will be changed. This is God’s multi-faceted instrument for conforming you to the image of his Son.

Living Wholehearted in a Halfhearted World

Mark 1:9-39

Many people in the Bible show the quality of wholeheartedness. Caleb wins the prize for being mentioned most about wholeheartedness. Next is Hezekiah, then Solomon, Noah, David, Daniel, and Nehemiah.

But keeping with the theme of Scripture, we know that Jesus is the supreme example of wholeheartedness. He never did anything halfway. He is the ultimate example of undistracted devotion in ministry. If we follow His example we will:

I. Jump Into Ministry (9-20)

Mark records no birth announcements, no manger scenes, and no wise men. For him the good news starts with John the Baptist preaching and Jesus’ jumping into ministry.

Mark believes that baptism, temptations, and calling of disciples are not signs of completion of ministry but the beginning of ministry.

What about you, what is holding you back from jumping into the work of God with both feet?

II. Storm Satan’s Gates (21-28)

The disciples must have been “struttin’ while sittin’ down.” They had been called by Jesus and perhaps feeling quite smug.

Little did they know that they would soon encounter the very jaws of hell. What could be more innocent than going to the synagogue?

The disciples watch as Jesus hushes the demon. No doubt they began to realize that they are on route to a genuine encounter with the enemy. At least life with Jesus is very exciting!

Christians need to stop living so much on the “defense” and start working with an “offensive” strategy!

III. Be Where You Are (29-34)

Jesus bloomed where He was planted. When Jesus performed miracles He gave the candidate His undivided attention.

Whether it was time for the sick, exorcising demons, or taking care of Peter’s mother-in-law Jesus really was 100% there.

Today, many Christians are more focused on what they “want to do” or what they wish they “hadn’t done” to be of any effectiveness for Christ today!

IV. Discipline Yourself in Prayer (35-39)

This is the real power behind wholeheartedness. This is the only thing that can keep us from doing ministry in the power of the flesh.

Two key words here….DISCIPLINE…..PRAYER!

If you are going to confront this culture and actually impact it and your church for Christ—it’s going to take…..DISCIPLINE……& PRAYER!

May we be passionate about giving our Lord and Savior 100% of who we are 100% of the time!


Learn how to handle stress as a Christian

Learn how to handle stress as a Christian!

This past Sunday AM, I preached a message entitled “How to Maintain a Heart for God when the Pressures Pile Up” (you can listen to the audio of that message here). There were many Scripture references that we did not have time to look into in depth during the service, so I promised to post my notes here to allow for more in-depth study of this important matter.

I trust and pray this will be a help and encouragement to all Christians today! And, if you are not saved, then you can find out about that here! You cannot effectively handle stress without Jesus Christ! 

Stress: you know the feeling; everything is coming undone. You feel as though your whole world is crumbling before your eyes. Your inward parts are in turmoil and never still, just like Job (Job 30:27). You may call it affliction, anxiety or tension. You are possibly physically ill with that stress headache again. You would give anything for this stress to be replaced with comfort, happiness and peace. Good news!

Christian stress management is needed in the times in which we live. Stress is something we all claim to know something about. We have felt it in our body in various ways.

When it’s good stress, we feel a natural chemical flowing through our body, which causes us to feel good. However, when the stress is bad, it can have effects on the body that can cause pain and other negative effects.

There are at least three main “sources” that stress comes from:

Physical – Some of our stress can be caused by illness, pain, exercise injuries, and fatigue. In Christian stress management, we recognize that the list can go on and on about our physical stress. It can happen suddenly or slowly.

Mental – Some stress is mental. It is important to remember when trying to “de-stress” that we let people or things get into our head and it can cause us to feel stressed.

People have a way of irritating us to the point that it bothers us mentally. This can be stressful. Things such as jobs, houses, cars, and the like can be a source of stress. When things don’t go the way we planned for them to go, it can cause stress.

Spiritual – Maybe it’s Satanic attack or just daily struggles to maintain a consistent/abiding relationship with Jesus.

• Millions of Americans suffer from stress each year. 

• In fact, 3 out of 4 people say they experience stress at least twice a month. 

• Over half of those people say they suffer from ‘high’ levels of stress at least twice a month. 

• Stress can contribute to heart disease, high blood pressure, and strokes, and make you more likely to catch less serious illnesses like colds. It can also contribute to drunkenness, obesity, drug addiction, cigarette use, depression, and other harmful behaviors. 

• In the last 20 years, the number of people reporting that stress affects their work has gone up more than four times. (Whereas the number of people reporting that other illnesses affect their work have gone down.) 

• One fourth of all the drugs prescribed in the United States go to the treatment of stress.

Look at Jesus (in our text) and see how ‘stress’ piled up on Him…. Matthew 14:1-21

Since God intends to make you like Jesus, he will take you through the same experiences Jesus went through. That includes loneliness, temptation, stress, criticism, rejection, and many other problems.

  1. Emotional Pressures —14:12
    1. John the Baptist
  2. Physical/Mental Pressures —14:13a
    1. Herod
    2. Religious Leaders
  3. Spiritual Pressures —14:13-14 
    1. Multitudes follow to Bethsaida
    2. Multitudes demand Attention
  4. Ministerial Pressures —14:22
    1. He sees their trouble
    2. He walks on water

“True leadership is tested and proved in crises. The real leader is the one who can handle the stress. He is the one who can solve the problems, bear the burdens, find the solutions, and win the victories when everyone else is merely flustered, confounded, and perplexed.”

Now that we have seen how ‘stress’ can come into our lives….let’s look in detail at how we can still maintain a heart for God during these times!

An unpeaceful mind cannot operate normally.

We look at David – Psalm 59

  • Written after Saul tried to kill David
  • Saul sends men to watch David’s house….and kill him
  • 1 Samuel 19:9-12

The pressures in David’s life forced him to probe to the depths of his relationship with the Lord, and this relationship with God was necessary equipment for his future role as Israel’s greatest king.

1. Talk to God —v.1-2

  1. Anchor yourself
    1. You are only as stable as your anchor!
    2. Don’t trust any external, internal, or secular source before you have trusted in Jesus Christ as your eternal Savior!
    3. Handling stress is an impossible thing to do without Christ!
    1. Matthew 19:26 But Jesus beheld them, and said unto them, With men this is impossible; but with God all things are possible.

  2. Admit the problem
    1. Yes, you must tell God what He already knows.
    2. Confession is good medicine for the soul!
      1. “Many of those who once were so passionately in love with Christ now run about pursuing their own interests. They’re burdened down with stress and problems, chasing after riches and the things of this world.”
    3. There should be a “progression” of confession!
      1. God
      2. Others (There is safety in Godly council (Proverbs 11:14); however, others should not come before God.)
  3. Ask for help
    1. “Deliver Me” should be our cry
    2. The Lord loves to be asked for help and will readily provide what is needed.

Matthew 7:11 If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him?

2. Trust in God —v.8-9

1. Trust His character

    1. He is our loving Father
    2. He is the friend that stiketh closer than a brother
    3. He is the Balm of Gilead
    4. He is the good Shepherd

2. Trust His creeds (This is a matter of “mind over matter”. You might not think that this can be solved by God or might think you have to have “external” help….you must choose to believe in God’s Word!)

      1. John 14:27
      2. Isaiah 40:30,31
      3. Malachi 4:2
      4. Romans 8:6
      5. Romans 16:20
      6. Philippians 4:6,7
      7. Psalms 37:5
      8. Psalms 55:22
      9. 1 Peter 5:6,7
      10. Psalms 103:1-5
      11. Proverbs 16:3
      12. Jeremiah 17:7,8
      13. Romans 12:2
      14. Habakkuk 3:17-19
      15. James 1:2-4
      16. Isaiah 55:1-3
      17. Matthew 11:28-30
      18. Luke 10:41-42
      19. John 12:32
      20. 1 Corinthians 3:11
      21. 1 Corinthians 10:13

3. Trust His compassion

“O yes, He cares, I know He cares,His heart is touched with my grief;  When the days are weary, The long night dreary, I know my Savior cares.” -Does Jesus Care (Frank Graeff went through some very difficult trials. The period before writing this song was one of great despondency, doubt and physical pain. When he turned to God’s Word, 1 Peter 5:7 gave wonderful comfort: “He careth for you.” After meditating on that truth, Graeff wrote these lyrics, with the resounding affirmation in the chorus, “O yes, He cares…”)

Hebrews 4:15 For we have not an high priest which cannot be touched with the feeling of our infirmities; but was in all points tempted like as we are, yet without sin.

3. Triumph through God —v.16-17

  1. Keep sight of God
    1. Looking unto Jesus….Hebrews 12:2
    2. NOTHING is too big for Him!
  2. Keep singing to God
    1. John Wesley: Above all sing spiritually. Have an eye to God in every word you sing. Aim at pleasing him more than yourself, or any other creature. In order to do this attend strictly to the sense of what you sing, and see that your heart is not carried away with the sound, but offered to God continually; so shall your singing be such as the Lord will approve here, and reward you when he cometh in the clouds of heaven.
    2. D.L. Moody Every good gift that we have had from the cradle up has come from God. If a man just stops to think what he has to praise God for, he will find there is enough to keep him singing praises for a week.
    3. If you loose your song….you loose your heart for God!

A.W. Tozer “In almost everything that touches our everyday life on earth, God is pleased when we’re pleased. He wills that we be as free as birds to soar and sing our maker’s praise without anxiety [stress].”


Exodus 18:15-27

Moses is a great Bible character to study! There are so many lessons to learn from his life and walk with God. I believe in this chapter, we learn an important lesson about how to lead people….effectively!! Chances are, in some aspect of your life you lead people—now, our goal should be to do that as effectively and Biblically as we can!

I see five ways that Moses can help us in this endeavor:

1. A Call to Planning -v.15-17

  • Sometimes leaders get so “tunneled vision” that they fail to look and see the reality of what their life and/or decisions are causing to those that follow them!!
  • We need to have regularly scheduled times when we just take a look at the “big picture” and plan to fix the things that aren't working and improve the things that are!

2. A Call to Organizing -v.21

  • We know that God is a God of order and design and likes things done “decently and in order”.
  • As leaders, we should be the same!
  • Don't just dream about what could/should be done—plan and organize so it DOES get done!
  • Preachers and leaders in God's work should be known as being organized people that have the plan from God and are working to implement it!

3. A Call to Leading -v.24

  • This is key, even after “being corrected” by Jethro, Moses “saw the need and took the lead”!
  • Leaders must be pro-active and do whatever is needed to get the ministry of our Savior going full steam ahead for the glory of God!
  • A key point to learn as well is that we must be willing to take correction/advice from those that the Lord puts in our path—never become to arrogant to be teachable!
  • Remember: “if no one is following your leadership, you are just taking a lonely walk in front of everyone”.

4. A Call to Evaluating -v.25-26

  • Moses looked for those that could help him get the job done.
  • One thing that I have seen many pastors/church planters be week in is in the area of delegating and getting other qualified helpers in the work force. Often times it seems easier for us to just do it ourself, but we must learn to evaluate those under our sphere of influence and teach/mentor them so they can take the burden of many tasks off our shoulders.

5. A Call to Prioritizing -v.26

  • I see at the end that Moses actually let the men do their job….thus enabling him to do his job better!
  • Simply put, this is effective time management!
  • Leaders must learn and continue to grow in the area of being wise stewards of the time that God has given to them on this earth. Whether you use an “old fashioned” pen and day timer — or you go more “high tech” with smartphones | tablets | and computers….you need to master a system that works to manage your daily tasks, keep your ideas and vision from God “actionable”, and help keep your mind free from trying to remember all those things so you can actually get in touch with God and meditate on His Word!

We all know that “the ministry is all about people”….but if that is true, then we need to learn to be effective leaders of people-God's heritage!


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